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tomatomagica:

sallystageplay:

2018 is the year we stop using kinks people don’t wanna see as punchlines and focus on what’s actually funny. we’ll start with crab jungle

good old crungle

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alexdadvers:

glitter6ug:

hot take: if women’s sexuality wasn’t severely shamed and suppressed even in the context of heterosexuality, if sex was framed as reciprocal rather than something men do to women, a hell of a lot more women would realize they’re not actually attracted to men at all

the fact that so many of the people reblogging this post are interpreting it as a bitter lesbian whining about how women won’t sleep with her instead of a discussion of how society’s framing of sex negatively affects gay women is incredibly telling of how this website views lesbians

oppa-homeless-style:

ubercharge:

bigmysteriousmoon:

bigmysteriousmoon:

butchkurama:

bigmysteriousmoon:

bigmysteriousmoon:

hi is anyone here good at photoshop and can make a version of leonardo da vincis st john the baptist where hes flipping the bird

this is incredibly important

how’s this?

god bless

every motherfucker on this post:

I KNOW!!! I KNOW AND SO DOES WEIRD AL!!!

Lesbian is a beautiful, strong word with a long history and a loving, diverse community

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constellationfortwo:

pvedameron:

pvedameron:

pvedameron:

i know y’all don’t want to hear this but coping mechanisms aren’t inherently healthy and just because it helps you in the moment doesn’t mean it won’t hurt you in the long run

when people tell you your coping mechanism is unhealthy they aren’t trying to police you or tell you what to do, they’re pointing out that you are hurting yourself and possibly hurting others and that you should find better ways to work through your trauma to have a better outcome in life

listen if this post makes you mad, I’m sorry, but i made this as someone who is mentally ill, as someone who is an abuse victim who has and still uses unhealthy coping mechanisms because people on this website discouraged me from seeking help

it’s hard to recognize youre hurting yourself. it’s hard to break out of that. im just tired of the prominent anti-recovery rhetoric on tumblr dot com and a lot of others are too.

Good post here.

And for anyone who missed it the first time reading, like I did: inherently is an important word there. There is such thing as healthy coping mechanisms. They exist. But there’s also such thing as unhealthy coping mechanisms, and you need to figure out which one is which if you want to better yourself.

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hurloaned:

its so frustrating seeing people treat compulsory heterosexuality as something you Have or Don’t Have and can Appropriate if youre straight and not like. a societal force that universally limits & shapes womens relationships 

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a-queer-seminarian:

i love experiencing how my classmates work to avoid misgendering me. for instance, today one classmate greeted the rest of our small group:
“All right ladies and gentlemen — and Avery”

another time a classmate went:
“Pardon me, ma’am — uh, sir, uh….esteemed one”

and, my absolute fave:
“Hey ladies! — and gentleThem”

i love these moments both because they’re humorous and because they show how hard these folks are trying! it’s not about getting it right every time at first, but consistently correcting yourself!